Observe host: The best way to learn table etiquette is observe the host as he is the leader at a dinner party or meal.
Emulate host: Put your napkin in your lap when you see them doing it. Match their rate of eating. Use appropriate cutlery: If there are many utensils in your place setting and there is more than one course, start on the outside and work your way in.
Be polite: Take small bites; do not chew with your mouth open; do not talk with food in your mouth; and do not place elbows on the table.
Pass items: When someone says, "Please pass the...' reach for it only if you are the closest one to it.
